Hi from me too, Eileen.
I'm with Lillian: Make time to play. I agree with her walking/biking: I think it's important to be active outside, because you spend so much time outside.
Also, I learned early on not to take anything personally on the job. Attorneys frowning at you? It's because they can't frown at their clients. Shouting in your direction? It's because they're too emotionally involved in the case. As long as you're behaving in a professional manner, if it's not your fault, don't worry about it. Let it run off like water on a duck's back.
My personal recipe for stress relief is a pound of sunflower seeds (salted in the shell), a liter of Coca-Cola, and a good science fiction paperback.
First, send everyone in the house out to the mall or a movie or something.
Then hide the car in the garage, take the phone off the hook, turn off the cell, cuddle up in the big overstuffed chair, and enjoy.
Mary Anne